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(AN)OTHER INTIMACY – THE POWER OF PLAY


  • IKSK - Institute for Body Research and Sexual Culture - Berlin 25 Holzmarktstraße - House 2 / 4th floor Berlin, BE, 10243 Germany (map)

Intimacy that breaks free from set patterns and conventions is fantastic, creative, and unpredictable—that’s what makes it so appealing, but also quite complex and challenging. In the(AN)OTHER INTIMACYworkshops, we want to take this leap of faith! What’s there to experience? How do I come up with ideas? How do I figure out what my deepest needs and longings are? And how do I put them into practice?

In dem Kurs POWER OF PLAY schrauben wir Ansprüche und Intensität ein Stück weit nach oben und rücken das Spielen als Methode und Form der intimen und intensiven Begegnung ins Zentrum der Aufmerksamkeit. Die Grundkonzeption ist dabei recht einfach: zwei erwachsene Menschen einigen sich, den Boden alltäglicher Umgangsformen zu verlassen und sich in verabredeten Grenzen anders zu verhalten, als sie es gewöhnlich tun und als es im konventionellen Kontext akzeptabel wäre. Das Interesse: Wie verändern sich Interaktionen, wenn wir sie bewusst spielerisch gestalten? Was können wir beim Spielen über uns selbst lernen? Was geschieht, wenn wir dabei festgesetzte Ziele, unsere Selbstkritik und unsere Erwartungen an uns selbst einmal beiseite lassen und auf Präsenz, Spontaneität und Lust fokussieren? Als gemeinsam Forschende machen wir uns in diesem Kurs über die vertrauten Facetten unseres lustvollen Selbst hinaus, auch mit den versteckteren bekannt – mit unserem Vergnügen an Macht und Unterwerfung, Überwältigung und Ausgeliefertsein oder Schmerz und Restriktion. Dabei können wir viel über uns selbst lernen, unser kreatives Potential und unsere Freude an spielerischer Spontaneität wiederentdecken und uns für neue Wege und Begegnungen inspirieren lassen.

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. The (AN)OTHER INTIMACY workshops aim to give participants an idea of what a playful and alternative “sex-positive” space could be, how we can create it together, and how we can navigate it. The focus here lies well beyond a normative understanding of intimacy and sexuality that would equate sex with nudity, genital contact, and any kind of physical penetration. We prefer to focus on the playful, imaginative, performative, and experimental aspects to explore the wide variety of what human bodies and minds are capable of.

We work with tools such as Bodysomatics, the Beginner’s Mind, role-playing, and BDSM-inspired practices, thereby creating diverse opportunities to develop spontaneity and playfulness, to dare to discover what is interesting and desired and what is definitely unwanted, to set boundaries, communicate them, and respect them—but also to invite consensual play and help shape scenes. In this process, playful experimentation becomes both a strategy for discovering new ways of intimate interaction and the primary tool for doing so. After two days of (re)discovering our playful selves and learning to navigate them, we’ll form a trusting community of experimenters. On Sunday, this community will come together in a PlayArragement—sometimes more structured, sometimes less, yet always carefully designed—to explore and celebrate ourselves and our new discoveries in a freer setting.


ZEITEN
Fr, 31.05.2024 - 11-23:** Uhr
Sa, 01.06.2024 - 11-23:** Uhr
So, 02.06.2024 - 11-20:00 Uhr

The end of class may be slightly delayed for this event.

LANGUAGES
German, English

HOSTED BY
Matís & tbd

Choose your ticket price based on your own assessment.

With our Low(er) Income Tickets, we want to give low-income individuals the opportunity to attend our events.

We cordially invite high earners to make it with a higher contribution possible for us to make this offer.

With that in mind, we thank you in advance for your solidarity.

For people with particularly low incomes, there are usually additional options available for even lower prices.

Please don't hesitate to write to us and ask any questions. We'd love to have you join us!

WORKSHOP FEE PER PERSON

Regular Tickets - the average we aim for
CHF 290,00

Low(er) Income Tickets - get support!
I – CHF 240,00
II – CHF 190,00

High(er) Income Tickets - give support!
I – CHF 340,00
II – CHF 390,00

Please also read all further info below, too.

 
 

 

Further informations

NOTES ON THE EVENT

The goals of our events are collaborative learning within the group, supporting shared processes, and personal development. Couples and all other types of partnerships or relationships are welcome, but you should be aware and open to the fact that the courses are not designed as partnership experiences and that we address each person as an individual. For example: To ensure that all participants are equally involved, we usually work with randomly assigned partner combinations during the exercises. This means there will be both same-gender and mixed-gender pairings. Participants should generally be open to working with any person and any body. Exceptions can be discussed on a case-by-case basis.

Gender identity, sexual orientation, age, or membership in marginalized groups such as BBIPoC, migrants, refugees, LGBTQIA*, people with disabilities, etc., are not criteria for registration or participant selection.

We expect you to act with care, be communicative, prioritize consent, and be mindful, and we encourage you to respect your own boundaries and take personal responsibility.
Hate speech will not be tolerated. Please bring “Candy Speech” with you.
We reserve the right to ask participants to leave the workshop if their behavior is harmful or problematic, and we reserve the right to do so without explanation—although we will likely try to explain our decision. Workshop fees would then be refunded in full. Any further claims are excluded.
We do our best to accommodate different needs, but our resources are limited. Please contact us if you have any questions.

You can read more about this topic here.

CANCELLATION POLICY

Cancellations are free of charge up to eight weeks before the start of the course, up to four weeks before the start of the course a cancellation fee of 20% of the course fee is due, up to two weeks before the start of the course a cancellation fee of 50% is due. Later cancellations and refunds of participant fees are not possible. However, participants can find substitute participants who will take the booked places. In case of cancellation by the organizer, the course fee will be refunded in full. Further claims are excluded.

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