Surrendering into loving hands. Into their warm, soothing touch. Broad flowing strokes over and under your whole body. Like being embraced by the ocean’s swirling waves and its silent depths. Feeling grounded. Deeply touched. And then: Smack! The cheeky sensation of a hand spanking a muscle. Its vibrations radiating in your bones. The tingling afterwards. Feeling vitalized. The mind gets carried away by this mingling of sensations.
When two worlds meet… Lomi-inspired sensual massage and the world of kinky BDSM at first seem to be full of contrasts. Kink involves consensually inducing pain and consciously exploring qualities of submission and dominance. It involves fiery aspects of desire and eroticism, but can as well be meditative, relaxing or playful fun. On the other hand the massage we teach is based on techniques we gratefully learned when being initiated as Lomi Lomi teachers by traditional practitioners in Hawaii. This full body healing ritual is a holistic approach to body, mind and soul, that is clearly distinguished from sexual practices. So when we will get back to its basic elements of touch and fuse it with our creative, caring and passionate approach to kink, it will become something else. A practice of its own that can not be called Lomi Lomi any more. We also respect Lomi Lomi as something else. Still, our characters and lifes are inspired deeply by both worlds.
KINKY LOMI is the celebration of this entanglement and its profound principle: to listen deeply to the body with empathy and respect in order to support it to go on a unique inner journey. To discover other aspects of oneself, to find new perspectives and maybe even experience the blessing of positive transformation.
A EDGY CONNECTION...
Traditional Hawaiian Lomi Lomi is a ritual that dates back more than 5,000 years and we want to preserve it as such.
We are convinced that the qualities of touch and connection in the original Lomi Lomi massage are so powerful that they retain their healing effects in different settings.With humble respect we have taken the liberty of incorporating these caring qualities into our unique new format. For this we considerately leave all the ancient spiritual elements of the original Lomi Lomi massage aside in order to preserve them for Lomi Lomi’s pure form.We consider it a great challenge to prove ourselves worthy of our teacher’s trust and at the same time to follow our own integrity and creative impulses.
What is KINK?
Kink, to us, means to experiment with desire. To try out new things. To dare getting in touch with one’s own shadows. To learn about clear communication and consent.A space that opens to the playfulness and discovery of one’s own sexuality. Intensity invites clarity, control can turn into surrender, fear dissolves into trust, new spaces of experience open up.
What do we teach?
In this workshop we will give an introduction to sensual massage inspired by Lomi Lomi. We will explore how it can be transformed in a loving form of power play, how to gradually introduce domination into the massage practice, how to develop empathy and non-verbal communication, how to negotiate consent and create a safe container. We will playfully integrate kink in a range of possibilities of soft domination practices, including impact play (spanking), hair pulling, body immobilization, teasing and denial.
Our approach is playful, creative and intuitive on the basis of trust and consent. Our rich experience gives you impulses on how you can find a YES in yourself with joy and curiosity to your power, intimacy and devotion.
You will new tools. But most of all, you will learn to trust yourself in leading and/or surrendering. You will learn to build a dynamic arc of tension for the intensity of a session, to read body language and to follow the lustful desire of the receiving person.
During these 3 days we see ourselves as travel companions for you. We will take you on an adventure, an encounter with yourself.
Play with us and discover yourself anew! At the end we will surprise ourselves.
PROGRAM
We will start with some warm up and a movement exploration to allow the energy to flow and a heightened and conscious presence in the body.Afterwards we will explain and practice touch qualities of the traditional Lomi Lomi massage.On the second day we will introduce different domination practices and their practical application in a setting of full consent.
Day 1 - Sensual MASSAGE - inspired by Hawaiian Lomi Lomi
* Introduction/deepening (individual teaching)
Day 2 - Kink
* Consent, sensing + communicating own desires and boundaries.
* Kinky tools & techniques
* Use of breath, movement and voice
Day 3 - THE RITUAL
Bringing together everything you have experienced so far to create your final ritual
“KINKY LOMI” – Giving + Receiving (according to individual wishes)
A workshop by www.kinky-lomi.com & www.lomi-ausbildung-berlin.de
SCHEDULE
Fri, 14 Oct 2022 - 5pm-10pm
Sat, 15 Oct 2022 - 10am-8pm
Sun, 16 Oct 2022 - 10am-6pm
LANGUAGES
German, English
HOSTED BY
Jana, Anja & Stefano
Choose your ticket price according to your self-assessment.
With the Low(er) Income TIckets, we also want to give low-income earners the opportunity to attend our events.
We cordially invite high earners to make it with a higher contribution possible for us to make this offer.
We would like to thank you in advance for your solidarity.
For people with particularly low incomes, there are usually additional options for even lower prices.
Please do not hesitate to write to us and ask. We would be delighted if you could join us!
PRICE PER PERSON
CHF 530,00
Low(er) Income Tickets
I - CHF 450.00
II - CHF 370.00
III - CHF 290.00
Supporter tickets
I - CHF 610,00
II - CHF 690,00
III - CHF 770,00
Please also read all further info below, too.
Further informations
THE FACILITATORS
Jana and Anja
are siblings and founders of the institute. LOMI TRAINING BERLIN. We are teaching international Lomi Lomi Massage and personal development. We are lomi lomi therapists and breath worker (rebirthing) and see ourselves as learners + travelers: Familiar for many years with ritualized play in Kink, with Lomi- and Tantra massage we open our wealth of experience on this weekend to dive in together with you.
Stefano Taiuti
is a body worker, lomi lomi masseur, butoh dance performer and movement teacher.With a BH in history of dance and mime he is a researcher in the field of movement and performance art. He practiced a wide range of disciplines as contemporary mime, ballet, contemporary dance, floor work, contact impro, capoeira, qi qong, tai chi, judo, instant composition, yoga and since 1994 his main interest is in japanese Butoh dance.
Stefano gives classes and workshops on his method that he named “the Spiritual Mechanism”.
He is an active member of the s*x positive community developping different applications of his knowledge of the body and movement to kink and s*xual exploration.
Born in Rome in 1967 is based in Berlin since 2015.
www.stefanotaiuti.com
For more information, please contact us!
WHAT TO BRING
• a lunghi/pareo
• comfortable clothes for movement
• organic massage oil
We will send you a detailed list when you register.
GENERAL INFORMATION ON THE EVENT
The aims of our events are to learn together as a group and support shared processes as well as personal development. Couples and all other types of partnerships or constellations are welcome, but you should be aware and open to the fact that the courses are not designed as partnership experiences and that we address each person as an individual. For example, in order to include all participants equally, we usually work with random partner combinations in the exercises. This means that there will be both the same and different gender combinations. Participants should generally be open to working with any person and any body. Exceptions can be discussed on a case-by-case basis.
Gender identity, sexual orientation, age or membership of often marginalized groups such as BBIPoC, migrants, refugees, LGBTQIA*, disabled people, etc. are not criteria when registering and selecting participants. This means that, in principle, everyone is equally welcome and we endeavor to do justice to the respective constellation and different needs, but our resources are limited. If you have any questions in this regard, please contact us.
We expect you to be careful, communicative, consent-oriented and mindful, and we encourage you to respect your own boundaries and self-responsibility.
Hate speech will not be tolerated. Please bring "candy speech".
We reserve the right to ask participants to leave the workshop should their behavior be hurtful or too problematic, and we reserve the right to do so without explanation - although we will likely try to explain. Workshop fees would then be refunded in full. Further claims are then excluded.
You can read more about this topic here.
PRICES AND IF SOLD OUT
We would like to give low-income earners the opportunity to attend our events with the Low(er) Income TIckets. We cordially invite high-income earners to make it possible for us to make this offer with a higher contribution. We would like to thank you in advance for your solidarity.
For PEOPLE WITH PARTICULARLY LOW INCOME there is usually the possibility of even lower prices. Please do not hesitate to write to us and ask. We are happy if you can be part of it!
Is the event sold out on the ticket platform? Write to us! There may be a waiting list or another opportunity to take part after all.
CANCELLATION POLICY
Cancellations are free of charge up to eight weeks before the start of the course, up to four weeks before the start of the course a cancellation fee of 20% of the course fee is due, up to two weeks before the start of the course a cancellation fee of 50% is due. Later cancellations and refunds of participant fees are not possible. However, participants can find substitute participants who will take the booked places. In case of cancellation by the organizer, the course fee will be refunded in full. Further claims are excluded.