It’s going to be a cozy evening at Juicy! We’re thrilled that Beate Absalon will be visiting the Juicy sex shop to read from her book *Not Giving a Fuck: On Unfulfilling Sex and Sexless Desire* and lead a discussion.
The event starts at 6:30 p.m., and you’re welcome to just drop by—no registration is required. The book will be available for purchase at the event.
LANGUAGES
German
With
Beata
COST
The event is free of charge.
SCHEDULE
Saturday, January 25, 2025
Start 6:30 p.m.
End 8:00 p.m.
LOCATION
Sexshop Juicy
Arno-Nitzsche-Str. 20
04277 Leipzig
AboutNOT GIVING A FUCK:
Finally, no more sex!
The pressure to have amazing sex is everywhere these days. Beate Absalon invites us to shake it off and explore the possibilities of uninhibited and inventive pleasure.
Sex can be a source of regret. It could be a refuge for mutual pleasure and carefree whims—but it has become a high-stakes endeavor that must succeed at all costs so that we, too, can be considered successful, even in areas where we’re already doing better from a queer-feminist perspective.
In her quest to de-stress, Beate Absalon takes a culturally and historically grounded look at the secluded—yet only seemingly opposed—side of sexuality: sexual aversion, asexuality, celibacy, and dysfunction, which delightfully refuse to submit to the duty of sexual service and open up unprecedented scope for exploration.
Press reviews:
"The book is inspiring because readers can't help but reflect on their own patterns and beliefs, both in and out of bed."
– L-Mag - The Magazine for Lesbians
"'Not giving a fuck' can be a revelation, a catalyst for recognizing our compulsively sexual society and questioning it for ourselves. It’s a relief to read because the book isn’t just understanding and free of prejudice, but also connects individual questions to the bigger picture.”
– queer.de
“The author invites us to let go of the idea that we have to experience mind-blowing sex. Instead, to find our own individual, independent, and inventive pleasure.”
– (Freizeit) Kurier
"We take the topic of sex too seriously. True intimacy only arises when a lack of desire and non-performance are accepted as completely normal, says cultural studies scholar Beate Absalon."
– Stern online
About the author:
As a cultural studies scholar, Beate Absalon focuses on contemporary sexual culture. Combining theory with practice, she offers workshops on forms of sexual play under the labelluhmen d’arc, in which she explores ambiguities, sociopolitical contexts, and non-cathartic emotions (such as awkwardness, shyness, and laziness). >> More about Beata
For those who want to be prepared: order the book from your favorite bookstore
or>> directly from the publisher in Austriaor >> from Orell Füssli