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MOUTH MASSAGE: (AN)OTHER PENETRATION

  • IKSK - Institute for Body Research and Sexual Culture - Berlin 25 Holzmarktstraße - House 2 / 4th floor Berlin, BE, 10243 Germany (map)

When was the last time someone really paid attention to your mouth... during a massage? Physically, the mouth and face are teeming with nerve endings and sensitivity. Socially, the face is highly charged. We communicate with it, we try to control it, some cover it in makeup and/or styled facial hair. And our mouth is this fascinating gateway to our insides, a deliciously wet cave with protective teeth and that cheeky little tongue that seems to have a mind of its own.

What happens when we let someone gently touch it, move it, or go inside it? 

We’ll explore how to massage the face and mouth—both from the outside and gently on the inside.

In this guided, step-by-step massage workshop, you’ll learn:

  • The basics of facial and oral anatomy (just enough to know where to look and what to avoid)

  • How to create a space where you feel safe enough to let go (because putting your fingers in your mouth is weird unless you're relaxed)

  • Body positioning and how to sit comfortably while giving a massage

  • What kinds of touch feel good—kinky, relaxing, erotic? Adjust the intensity depending on where you want this bodywork to go

  • How to slow down

  • How to communicate consent nonverbally (when your mouth is occupied…)

  • How to maintain good hygiene and, if desired, use gloves 

  • Why this type of massage is not just about technique, but about connecting with the client

This is a workshop for anyone who wants to explore a part of the body that we usually overlook during full-body massages. It invites you to be present, playful, and respectful. And to honor the power of this work, we will set aside time at the end for integration.

What happens to you when you let someone open your mouth?

THE FACILITATORS

Photo: Jana Reinwarth

BEATA

is a writer, psychosocial counselor, and workshop facilitator. Her workshops are experiments in engaging with complexity—not resolving it, but viewing it as an invitation: understanding it as a creative, erotic, and powerful source. As a cultural theorist trained in various somatic fields, she draws attention to social contexts, ambiguities, and the aesthetic qualities of intimacy.
Together with Rebecca, she is currently preparing her September retreat, TANTRA WITH A PINCH OF SALT, which reimagines tantra massage through dialogue, not dogma.

Instagram: @beateabsalon

Photo: Pauline Massimo

REBECCA

is a coach, host, masseuse and researcher. She holds an MA from the University of Cambridge where she studied the philosophy, literature and art of the body and of sexuality. She grounded her intellectual exploits into physical practice and is a certified masseuse, yoga teacher and sexological bodyworker as well as a dedicated practitioner of qi gong, butoh and pranayama.  

Instagram: @feel_more_bln


ZEITEN
Mi, 04.06.2025 - 20-23 Uhr

LANGUAGES
English, German

HOSTED BY
Beata & Rebecca Frances

NO REGISTRATION!
JUST COME AND JOIN!
Please arrive at least 15 minutes early. Pay in cash on site. See prices below...

Choose your ticket price according to your self-assessment.

With the low(er) income tickets, we also want to give low-income earners the opportunity to attend our events.

We cordially invite high earners to make it with a higher contribution possible for us to make this offer.

We would like to thank you in advance for your solidarity.

For people with particularly low incomes, there are usually additional options for even lower prices.

Please do not hesitate to write to us and ask. We would be delighted if you could join us!

WORKSHOP FEE PER PERSON

Regular Tickets - our target average price
: €45.00

Low(er) Income Tickets - get support!
EUR 25.00

High(er) Income Tickets - show your support!
EUR 70.00

Please also read all further info below, too.

 
 

 

Further informations

NOTES ON THE EVENT

The aims of our events are to learn together as a group and support shared processes as well as personal development. Couples and all other types of partnerships or constellations are welcome, but you should be aware and open to the fact that the courses are not designed as partnership experiences and that we address each person as an individual. For example, in order to include all participants equally, we usually work with random partner combinations in the exercises. This means that there will be both the same and different gender combinations. Participants should generally be open to working with any person and any body. Exceptions can be discussed on a case-by-case basis.

Gender identity, sexual orientation, age or membership of marginalized groups such as BBIPoC, migrants, refugees, LGBTQIA*, people with disabilities etc. are not criteria when registering and selecting participants.

We expect you to be careful, communicative, consent-oriented and mindful, and we encourage you to respect your own boundaries and self-responsibility.
Hate speech will not be tolerated. Please bring "candy speech".
We reserve the right to ask participants to leave the workshop should their behavior be hurtful or too problematic, and we reserve the right to do so without explanation - although we will likely try to explain. Workshop fees would then be refunded in full. Further claims are then excluded.
We do our best to accommodate different needs, but our resources are limited. If in doubt, please contact us.

You can read more about this topic here.

CANCELLATION POLICY

Cancellations are free of charge up to eight weeks before the start of the course, up to four weeks before the start of the course a cancellation fee of 20% of the course fee is due, up to two weeks before the start of the course a cancellation fee of 50% is due. Later cancellations and refunds of participant fees are not possible. However, participants can find substitute participants who will take the booked places. In case of cancellation by the organizer, the course fee will be refunded in full. Further claims are excluded.

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