EVENTS - ARCHIVE
BONDAGE JAM ZURICH - SHIBARI AT SERRAT(U)S
serrat(u)s bodywork opens its doors to the Shibari public. Anyone who would like to tie up together with others, exchange ideas or simply watch and gain some initial experience is cordially invited! The Japanese art of bondage is a fascinating physical practice that offers a wide range of physical, mental and emotional experiences. Shibari has a lot in common with dance, yoga and meditation, and has a performative and touching aesthetic...
HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LOVER***: II - CONTEXTS
The exact same thing can be fun and arousing one moment and annoying and aggressive the next. That's why using great sex tips is useless if the light is too bright and the background noise too loud or if your lover is still stressed from work. That's why it's worth paying more attention to creating a comfortable setting - one in which the bodies feel safe.
HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LOVER***: I - DETAILS
The devil is in the detail. No matter how many tantra courses we book, how many sex tips we read, how much we shape our bodies, our lovemaking can still fail in the end because we miss out on the very small and simple delicacies. The focus on big spectacles - on perfect bondage skills or squirting guarantees - can sometimes even distract from intimacy and serve to hide behind it.
WINTA BONDAGE JAM ZURICH - SHIBARI IM SERRAT(U)S - with Newbie Intro
Rope Bondage is for everyone! However, this has not necessarily been the case with our usual Bondage Jam, because often things are quite conventional and heteronormative - and that does not fit for everyone.Therefore, there is now the WINTA BONDAGE JAM!WINTA stands for "Woman, Inter, Nonbinary, Trans, Agender" and this special Jam is primarily about creating a space where people who identify as WINTA can simply be among themselves. So basically it's very simple: people who don't see themselves as WINTA , please stay away from the event.
TANTRA - WITH A PINCH OF SALT - RETREAT IN SPAIN
What we in the modern West call "tantric massage" deserves to be dusted off and decluttered in order to shine in fresh splendor. Because we want the luxuriously long, deep, sensual, oily-warm caresses and the orgasmic full-body sensations - without the under-complex talk about male and female "energies". We want to bathe in the radically tender pleasure of being touched with full presence in a held space...
BONDAGE JAM ZURICH - SHIBARI AT SERRAT(U)S
serrat(u)s bodywork opens its doors to the Shibari public. Anyone who would like to tie up together with others, exchange ideas or simply watch and gain some initial experience is cordially invited! The Japanese art of bondage is a fascinating physical practice that offers a wide range of physical, mental and emotional experiences. Shibari has a lot in common with dance, yoga and meditation, and has a performative and touching aesthetic...
SAARA REI: MOVEMENT, SOUND & ROPE
If we think of Japanese-inspired rope bondage as a way to interact and move with another person, a way of dancing with them, then we can also look at how sound can affect our way of tying and being tied. How does music affect a session? How does it affect our movements and emotional state? And how do the sounds we make affect the reactions of the person we are tying with? Our movement and emotional state can be deeply affected by sound. I am sure many have experienced music that makes them feel, dance, and act in certain ways depending on the rhythm, tempo, lyrics, tone, and pitch. As well, sound and music can...
SAARA REI: ROPE BOTTOMING - DEVELOPING A PRACTICE
Being in rope can be an incredibly intense experience. The array of sensations and emotions that can be felt is limitless and often ever-changing within the experience of being tied. Processing, managing, and allowing these sensations and emotions requires a continuous, real-time evaluation of what we are feeling, and if we can accept the situation we are in or not. We need to be able to relinquish control and at the same time maintain absolute oversight so that we are able to react appropriately and responsibly. This level of balance is no easy task and exactly what we hope to develop a practice for during this...
SAARA REI: HUMILIATION & SHAME PLAY
The Latin root of 'humiliation' is 'humus', which translates as 'earth' or 'dirt'. Humiliation is the public failure of one's status claims. In private, such feeling amount not to humiliation but to painful self-realizations, such as embarrassment. Humiliation is not necessarily shameful. For instance, one could claim that Jesus was crucified and this humiliated, but that he did not feel shame (or so I was told, I was not there). Shame, on the otherhand, is a sort-of subset of humiliation; it is a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness...

