On Being Unenthusiastic About Enthusiastic Consent - New Zine by Beata

Consent is a bit like magic - it turns what was previously forbidden into something allowed of even desired! But how can we know that the consent given is valid - real! - consent?
Progressive sexpositive education at times outlines the parameters of good valid consent by using the acronym...

Beata Absalon 11.01.22 Beata Absalon 11.01.22

Calling A Sex-Positive Community, Group or Event a "Family" - And Why It Is A Red Flag - New Zine by Beata

In the many years we have been visiting or a part of different sex-positive scenes there has been a common word that made our whole bodies cringe and feel alarmed. It's family. Fa-mi-ly. It's supposed to sound nice, no? It gives a comforting sense of community. It's just a harmless way to sprinkle good vibes. To generate camaraderie. To let you know: You are welcome! You are a part of us! Gooblegubble One of us!...

Beata Absalon 02.01.21 Beata Absalon 02.01.21

Selfhelp zine for the time AFTER an exciting workshop

Completely irrelevant in times like these, but the vacations were such a great time for crafting and reflecting that we don't want to keep the results from you. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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August 2023
- Aug. 22, 2023 Devouring, digestion and cocoreç Aug. 22, 2023
July 2023
- July 3, 2023 "I do ask myself: Why am I turning people in?" July 3, 2023
April 2023
- Apr 22, 2023 Workshopsexuality. Part I Apr. 22, 2023
- Apr. 21, 2023 Workshopsexuality. Part II Apr. 21, 2023
- Apr. 20, 2023 Workshopsexuality. Part III Apr. 20, 2023
- Apr. 19, 2023 Workshopsexuality. Part IV Apr. 19, 2023
August 2022
- Aug. 23, 2022 Tantric massage: Decluttering, Recluttering & Beyond - A TWAPOS experience Aug. 23, 2022
July 2022
- July 30, 2022 Salt With A Pinch Of Tantra July 30, 2022
- July 21, 2022 On Being Unenthusiastic About Enthusiastic Consent - New Zine by Beata July 21, 2022
January 2022
- Jan. 11, 2022 Calling A Sex-Positive Community, Group or Event a "Family" - And Why It Is A Red Flag - New Zine by Beata Jan 11, 2022
December 2021
- Dec. 1, 2021 But I'm a Creep. A lab report. Dec. 1, 2021
October 2021
- Oct. 16, 2021 As many rules as necessary, as few as possible. The traps of deregulated sex positive spaces with a focus on gender inequality Oct. 16, 2021
September 2021
- Sept. 8, 2021 How can you actually play in so-called sex-positive spaces and is it actually about sex or not actually about something else, but what do you call it? Sept. 8, 2021
April 2021
- Apr 10, 2021 Cookie Consent Apr 10, 2021
Januar 2021
- Jan. 2, 2021 Selfhelp zine for the time AFTER an exciting workshop Jan. 2, 2021
December 2020
- Dec. 31, 2020 Intimate Interviews Part II Dec. 31, 2020
- Dec. 22, 2020 Video interview by the Goethe-Institut China with Beata on "Pornography & Society" Dec 22, 2020
November 2020
- Nov. 11, 2020 The inner playground. An audio journey by Tim Holland Nov. 11, 2020
October 2020
- Oct. 29, 2020 Daniela Reina Téllez On The Power Of Workshops And Circles Oct. 29, 2020
- Oct. 20, 2020 Sex /vs./&/?/ violence. Attempt at a conceptual delimitation based on demarcation Oct. 20, 2020
September 2020
- Sept. 18, 2020 Testimonial for our workshop "Trial & Eros" by Claire Sept. 18, 2020
August 2020
- Aug. 6, 2020 "Sex & Food" - Beata in a podcast talk with Nicole Siller Aug. 6, 2020
June 2020
- June 23, 2020 Intimate Interviews Part I - The connection between art and desire and a workshop request concert June 23, 2020
- June 15, 2020 Lonely surfaces - sexual enhancement on the touchscreen June 15, 2020
May 2020
- May 3, 2020 Sexmoralism - Compulsory Sex - Sexpositivity - Sexnegativity May 3, 2020
March 2020
- March 18, 2020 Inspiring restriction - not only in Japanese. Cultural and historical links to bondage March 18, 2020
February 2020
- Feb. 24, 2020 Clauses. A self-reflection Feb. 24, 2020
January 2020
- Jan. 15, 2020 Beyond 'sex-positive' and 'sex-negative' Jan 15, 2020
November 2019
- Nov. 27, 2019 Deguiltification - Experiential Essay By Chris Ifso Nov 27, 2019
- Nov. 10, 2019 Forensic Sexualities. Some thoughts on shame Nov. 10, 2019
September 2019
- Sept. 25, 2019 'Look what marketing's done to my body' - On the compulsion of (not so) creative self-marketing Sept. 25, 2019
July 2019
- July 9, 2019 Eclectic experiment on un/security (work in process) July 9, 2019
June 2019
- June 24, 2019 Wellness and exorcism. An attempt to answer the question of what makes a session valuable June 24, 2019
April 2019
- Apr 28, 2019 The Ropes That Mean The World. Reflections on the EURIX - Rope Artist Intl. Performances Spring 2019 Apr. 28, 2019
- Apr 6, 2019 "Always this disgusting sex". To read the reviews of Jan Bonny's 'Winter's Tale' Apr 6, 2019
March 2019
- March 27, 2019 A mixed bag, please! Definition difficulties March 27, 2019
- March 20, 2019 Enduring the weird. Reflections after a workshop March 20, 2019
July 2018
- July 10, 2018 Some Thoughts On The Empowering Sensual Objectifications In Contact Improvisation July 10, 2018

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On Being Unenthusiastic About Enthusiastic Consent - New Zine by Beata

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