Guys! We are all working diligently on a culture of consent by reminding each other in workshops and beyond that we don't take physical affection for granted; that we don't just assume anything about what the other person wants; that we respect personal boundaries and support each other in finding out, in a self-determined and collaborative process, what we want to do naughty things together; that we can move into surrender above all when we create safe spaces of trust; that a "no" is not a drama but a valuable hint for navigating the love zone and so on. This is all a huge project, a humanistic education project if you will, because there is much more at stake here than simply securing yourself in a legal contract-like manner when you become intimate together in order to arm yourself against accusations of assault. This is much more about deconstructing paternalistic structures, about new self and world relations! It's about learning to respect each other, to respect others and...