A mixed bag, please! Definitional difficulties

Difficulties in understanding. When, in a friendly gathering, people are recounting their wildest romantic escapades and then the extra detail slips out: “…and then we also had sex.” Yikes! And what were all those other things you did together? Actually, it’s a classic question: where does sexuality begin and where does it end? Generally speaking, the term refers exclusively to the act of penetration. This is particularly surprising when the people in the conversation are individuals who otherwise celebrate sexuality in all its diversity and engage in various experiments, techniques, games, and desires that go beyond the heteronormative framework…