A mixed bag, please! Definitional difficulties

Difficulties in understanding. When friends are socializing and recounting their wildest romantic escapades, and then someone casually adds: “…and then we had sex, too.” Yikes! And what about all the other things you did together? It’s actually a classic question: where does sexuality begin, and where does it end? Generally, the term refers exclusively to the act of penetration. This is particularly surprising when the people in the conversation are individuals who otherwise celebrate sexuality in all its diversity and engage in various experiments, techniques, games, and desires that go beyond the heteronormative framework…